LONG…
LUST…
LET GO…
& Discover the Innermost You
Professional Intimacy Coaching for Individuals & Couples
Curated service packages for when you
LONG…

Dating Surrogacy™
Matchmaking 2.0
Later Life Virginity
Rent a Boyfriend
Matchmaking Suppers
LUST…
Desire Matching
Erotic Enhancement
Honeymoon Playlist
Alternative Lifestyle Design
Infidelity Navigation

LET GO…

Dating, Relationship & Intimacy Coaching
for curious
individuals | couples | polycules
of all
sexual/asexual & romantic/aromantic orientations
relationship styles | abilities | gender identities
The Intimacy Curator helps couples and people deal with emotional and physical closeness with intimacy coaching sessions. We address issues like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, heartbreak, porn addiction, dating problems, and how to manage your libido. We also assist people to explore polyamory, kink, and ethical non-monogamy and provide unique services like cuddling therapy, platonic physical contact, and dating surrogacy. An intimacy coach will help you experience intimacy in a safe and private space. An intimacy coach will support your growth.
THE FOUNDER

Hi! My name is Aili
I’m a dating intimacy coach and relationship reinventionist passionate about helping individuals and couples discover deeper connections through emotional and physical intimacy. My journey into this transformative work stems from a deep belief that authentic intimacy is the foundation of fulfilling relationships and personal growth.
I am professionally trained in the Somatica Method and Neurodynamic Breathwork, two powerful modalities that form the cornerstone of my practice. As a trauma-informed and Queer, Poly + Kink Affirmative Coach, I create a safe, inclusive space where all individuals can explore their authentic selves without judgment.
Our work focuses on self-discovery through emotional and physical intimacy, utilizing visualization techniques, Inner Child Work, breathwork, attachment style theory, coaching methodologies, and transactional analysis to help clients overcome intimacy barriers and create deeper connections.
Through Sexual Wellness & Communication and sex and intimacy coaching services, we provide personalized support for addressing performance anxiety, exploring authentic desires, and healing sexual trauma with compassion.